Seriously. I am not sure I even know how to start this blog,cause I am really irritated that I am not being heard. Or when I am, it is being considered nagging/bitching.
Here's the problem and it's an old problem that's being revisited. I was always told that when you get married, you marry their family also. Well it's true.
And the addition to our marriage is in my face at least 2 to 3 times a week.
Yes, DH's brother is at our house 2 to 3 times a wk (sometimes more), playing Halo, eating up the food and talking non-stop. At this point I am not even trying to be nice anymore. I have a problem with anyone being in my house this often. I just don't think it's fair that my freedom of peace, quiet and nakedness is jeopardized.
However, when I say something it's considered bitching.
Now that the gloves are off, I don't care. I have the right not to see someone this often...in my house! I get very irritated that his brother has a sizable savings, owns his own business,but still lives at home. Yeah and his 25. I think something is wrong with this picture. I think only a few people, at this age, should be allowed to live at home.
One of them being MRDD. Although, many with MRDD can make it to independent living. So why can't he? Good question.
He had the nerve, when I asked him (the brother) about a time frame of when he thought he was going to move out, to shrug his shoulders and continue to pay attention to the Halo game.
Awww hell naw!
I am over his complacent attitude. And, I am tired of my husband being an enabler by allowing him to come over here and mooch off our shit. Sad thing is, his brother earns more than both of us,but continues to live with his parents. Hmmm, maybe something is wrong with him.
I guess DH is falling for the fact that he is driving around looking into apartments.Basically he talks a good game, but ( I believe) has no intention of following through.
I believe that his brother is going to be the death (sorry not literally) of this marriage. We are always in arguments over this crap- and I am tired of it. However, I am done speaking to the husband about it. I am going straight for the jugular. Hope their ready. If not, too bad.
Now I need some chips, damn them.
The Always Truthful,
~RMG
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