Men Crushes....yes they exist

I have been thinking a lot about men (hetereosexual) crushing on their guy friends. Why? Not really sure, but I have. And yes guys, even if you deny it, you all do crush hard on some of your friends.

Don't deny it!

Why is it that men (my husband and brother in-law...maybe most heterosexual men) struggle with the idea of having crushes on their best guy friends?

Seriously, what else can you call it when the only name that pops out of your mouth is that persons name, you spend more than 30 minutes talking on the phone (more than once a week) with this person, exchanging emails through-out the day, etc. ?

Please tell me what else it can be.

As women, we can say that we have crushes on other women without worrying about it sounding sexual. But some men really have a hard time with this idea.

Even after I explain that I don't mean it in a Brokeback Mountain type of way, my husband gets irritated. (Of course he also laughs cause, he knows I'm telling the truth.)

So tell me GUYS, why is it that you all don't like with this idea of having Men Crushes?

The Always Truthful,
~RMG